I hope this finds you well. I can’t even believe it’s already FEBRUARY 2020!
I was talking with my client, Linda, today about her strained relationship with her daughter, Cindy (age 12). I asked her, “If you could choose only one word to describe your relationship with Cindy, what word would you choose?”
Gasp, I heard from Linda … long pause … “Hmmmm, honestly, I’d choose ‘volatile’ … a roller coaster … up one day, wayyyy down the next.”
Then, I asked her “If your daughter was on this call and I asked her to choose only one word that she would use to describe her relationship with you, what one word / quality do you think she would choose?”
“Oh Lord!” Linda said … “I think Cindy would say that I don’t understand her … she feels misunderstood”
I was so taken by Linda’s willingness to be so real and authentic. This is the first step to true transformation.
Even though Linda perceived these qualities and the place their relationship is currently in, as “negative” – what I KNOW is that this is a powerful starting point for their transformation.
I then asked her to choose one word that best describes the highest vision of the relationship that they are seeking to have with each other.
Linda immediately said, “Connected”.
I asked her what word she though Cindy would choose. She said, “I think she desperately wants to be accepted exactly as she is … seen, celebrated“
These two individuals actually want THE SAME THING!
I encourage you to contemplate your relationship with your children, spouse, significant other, in laws … anyone you care about and want to enrich the quality of your relationship.
What word would you choose? What word do you imagine they might choose? Would you be nervous about asking? Nervous about the possible responses?
Remember, the answer is only a STARTING POINT to an authentic conversation (should you even choose to have one) about what transformation might be calling you to get you to the highest vision of your relationship. Have you really even contemplated the HIGHEST VISION of your relationship?
I also encourage you to ask yourself these questions about your own life … are there areas of your life that you want to transform?
If you’ve ever wanted to experience transformation in an extremely SAFE environment, I’d LOVE to have you join my first ever On Line Group Coaching course!
I’m many things in my life. If there’s one thing I am, it’s a masterful coach. After 20 years of working with individuals and groups, I still LOVE facilitating the inner working of us humans. And I LOVE facilitating the process of transformation. We can learn so much by witnessing another’s process. So, this will be possibly my most powerful course yet!
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I so hope to “see” you in class
I’M SPEAKING AT AGAPE THIS SUNDAY, FEB 9TH!
I’m so excited to be speaking at
The Agape International Spiritual Center
this Sun, Feb 9th!
If you live in the area, I’d LOVE LOVE LOVE to have you join us in person!
If you’re not in the area, you can LIVESTREAM the services at Agapelive.com or on Facebook at
https://www.facebook.com/AgapeInternationalSpiritualCenter/
It would mean so much to me to see you there!
Please let me know if you’ll be there in person or Livestream!
I’d love to look out to connect!
Location / Service Times:
The Agape International Spiritual Center
The Sagan Theatre
8440 Wilshire Blvd
Beverly Hills, CA 90211
LIVESTREAM LINKS:
https://www.facebook.com/AgapeInternationalSpiritualCenter/
SERVICE TIMES:
8:30 Meditation / 9:00 Service
11:00 Meditation / 11:30 Service
For more information, please go to: AgapeLive.com
Again, it would mean so much to me to have you there!
Much love,
Suzi